How to Choose the Right Lubricant: A Buyer's Guide
Lube isn't one-size-fits-all. The right formula can make the difference between an experience that feels amazing and one that feels sticky, irritating, or just plain wrong. Here's how to choose with confidence.
Water-based lubricants
The most versatile option. Water-based formulas are safe with all toy materials and all condom types, wash off easily, and won't stain sheets. They do dry out faster than other formulas, so you may need to reapply during longer sessions. Great for beginners and for anyone experimenting with new toys.
Silicone-based lubricants
Long-lasting and ideal for water play (shower or bath), silicone lube keeps its slip far longer than water-based options. The catch: it can degrade silicone toys over time, so pair it with glass, steel, or ABS plastic toys rather than silicone ones.
Oil-based and hybrid lubricants
Great for external massage and sensation play, but not condom-compatible (oil breaks down latex) and not recommended for internal use with silicone toys. Best reserved for solo play or toy-free intimacy.
Our recommendation
If you're not sure where to start, a water-based lubricant is the safest all-around choice. Browse our full range of lubricants, creams & glides to find a formula that matches your needs, whether that's long-lasting glide, warming sensations, or an unscented, sensitive-skin option.